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Posted by meinbigd on May 21, 2012 04:02 PM

Laura, I love that you commented on my journal. It strangely made me also feel confused...but after thinking on it awhile, I actually felt better about hearing hateful comments in the future from A.H. men. WOW! Maybe now these things won't pain me so much, now that I can use it to my advantage.

I've always heard that carrying a little extra weight, it weeds out the assholes....but I never met that "ONE" wonderful great guy when I was heavier. STILL SINGLE!!! So I guess I never used my extra weight for something good. Damn it! Seems at that time, I went through a few tooooo many assholes, and then I just wanted to avoid men all together the heavier I was. Shyness. Awkwardness. Embarrassment. Shame.

Now I don't have extra weight to "weed out the assholes"...CRAP! I want to weed them out. HELP!!! HA HA So then, thinking about hearing men who candidly talk about heavy girls..."fat bigotry" I now call it...that is how I can weed out the assholes. I can now feel grateful when I hear men say such hateful things...they will immediately be red-lined and put in the "asshole" category. (silver-lining to hearing hateful comments) I want to date kind caring men who would NEVER say such things.

Thanks again, you helped me look at a negative thing in a positive light.

Kisses
M~

Posted by Loriharmanp on Apr 15, 2012 03:21 PM

Thanks! I am on another of Robyn's challenges too and that word was victory. I got confused for a minute. I am good though.

You are doing great, keep up the good work :0)

Posted by Loriharmanp on Apr 01, 2012 01:27 PM

Hi Laura, So sorry I missed getting to see you when you were in Lakeland. I was spending so much time in St. Pete, All Children's at the time, it was hard for me to plan anything. Hope has stabilized and is doing much better. I am so pleased and this gives me a chance to stabilize and do better too! Please let me know when you come this way again so we can get together :0)

Posted by keeponswimmin on Mar 25, 2012 06:55 PM

Doing a gereat job... get in some sweaty work outs...

need to be at 6.5 off on the 1st..

We can keep up with that Yellow line!!

Posted by RitaSmith on Mar 20, 2012 07:34 AM

I too like your new profile photo, with or without your new shoes. We will reach our goals if we just stay commited.

Posted by bettyjoggs on Mar 16, 2012 04:44 AM

cute profile picture. You had sent me one by email...it is really cute.....with that dress you should catch many men....LOL

Posted by HEAVYMETAL on Mar 15, 2012 10:10 AM

feel better.........................lol

Posted by HEAVYMETAL on Mar 15, 2012 04:26 AM

'Or' was that flee, flea, flee, flea?

Posted by HEAVYMETAL on Mar 15, 2012 04:24 AM

Yes, flee market.....I've already got a 10x15 storage full of product. Most of my stuff is from auctions, used stuff that I buy in box lots. I recently bought a trailer with about 6-7 boxes of misc. for $1. Buy cheap, sell cheap....I've got the time, may as well do something with it...

Posted by bettyjoggs on Feb 23, 2012 01:26 AM

Hi Laura I can not wait to see you...... I see that you have dropped weight and that is a great thing....see you soon.